SOMETIMES MY BEHAVIOR HURTS MY PARTNER

Channeling #12

Amahra:

My behaviour hurts my partner and he gets angry. What can I do differently?

GOD: 

Your insecure and controlling behaviour toward your partner is merely a reflection of how you are treating yourself at your core. Be loving and compassionate to yourself as his apparent attacks call for a non-responsive reaction. You are acting out your own pain and triggering his. Seek to understand what could be at the basis of his reactive behaviour and in doing this you will come to a greater understanding about your own pain.  Think, say and do nothing, as his continual failed relationship is with himself.  Neither does he know how to dwell in a realm of intimacy or acceptance of self or you.

It matters not what he or others think about you, as your thoughts about your relationship with me are the only ones of consequence.  He represents the part of your mind that is disloyal to your personal truth and shows no compassion.  When you relinquish the face that he reflects, there will be silence within you. When you see that he is your mirror, you will realize that you are but attacking yourself – through him.

Cast your seeds of anger, judgement, insecurity and lack of self-esteem into my sea of forgetfulness, for in this place there is nothing to sustain them so they will die.  Do not waste energy killing them, for thus you continue your battle and struggle and your ego will win.  Let the seeds of love, greatness, compassion, clarity, discretion, willingness, trust, and growth, fall on the fertile ground in your heart.  Ask my help in remembering to nurture or water them.  Practice mindfulness and willingness and remember to laugh.  Laughter helps you to see that much of life is a cosmic joke, for I do not take you as seriously as you take yourself.  I have grander plans for you so be discerning about these seeds of thought, do not tend ones that serve you not.

Choose friends wisely as relationships are a sacred trust and your perception of your worthiness will determine the quality of your unions.  Look within to find your unique inner male, outwardly manifest your kind and non-critical male energy and through the laws of magnetic attraction this male will appear in person.  Exercise your heart by jumping, dancing, moving and being joyful. Use your innate wisdom daily and use it wisely.  You need not feel alone, merely start one step at a time. Your trust and faith in each step of this is required. This process will come  together as YOU COME together.