I'D LIKE TO BETTER UNDERSTAND RELATIONSHIPS.

Channeling #43



Jane:


I’d like to better understand relationships?


GOD: You are growing – you are always growing. Relinquish your need to control and fall back into the place of surrender and thus allow for space to open around you. A loved one must step into this space, or there is no relationship. This is much like the loading dock of a space station. If there is anything blocking the dock, (like your past issues or judgements) then it is impossible for the next ship willing to dock, to approach and engage.


You have moved to a deeper place of resolve, of watching to see what comes to you if you extend love. This is not to sit back and be lazy and make your partner do all the work to prove their love. There is a point in a relationship, where you must accept that love is a fact, see the love that is there and remember that all that is real is the love you were given. You have always sabotaged at this point because you fear love even more than you fear abandonment. For in abandonment one can hide, but in love – one must show up emotionally naked, on the level of your wound.


It is this that you find more terrifying than your fear of being alone. Yet your ego would keep this from you in order to hold you prisoner in relationships that do not nurture you. Your ego does not want healing for you, for then it is out of a job.


Your illusion is now dying and its demise requires that you remain constantly vigilant in your search for the love that is there and has always been there. Most humans make the mistake of seeking evidence for the wrongs we think are done to us.


Now you have an awareness that you are able to find that for which you seek if you would become that for which you seek. And you will gather new evidence to assure that. There is much beauty and peace within you and when you seek these and focus on them, you bring it to life on the inner screen of your psyche and project it out onto the landscape of your life.


Much is being revealed to you during this time. You must be calm and clear. This world is meant to be my playground for you, please see it thus or your efforts will go to waste. I have created for you to have this life in joy - so appreciate it. Ask for what you desire and give thanks when I deliver it.


You have always been loved – please remember that this is what you have forgotten.